Analyzes
    In the first four lines of the poem their meeting takes place. In line 1
    it is indicated that some time has passed since their last meeting.
    The woman calls herself bitch and this shows that one part of her is
    hostile and defensive. The bitch's first reaction is to growl at the man.
    She tells herself to keep quiet and not to make a scene, but when the
    woman is nice to him, in line 5, the bitch starts barking. The woman
    explains that he is not a trespasser or an enemy now.
      
    The word now is very important here. As he is not an enemy now, it
is indicated that he was an enemy in the past when they had a
relationship and your loved ones are not supposed to be your enemies.
From this we can assume that their relationship was not very good.
Now he is just someone from the past, someone she used to know
and they are very formal towards each other.
In line 8, she says to the bitch "Where are your manners" and this is
something you say to dogs or people, when you think that they do not
behave properly.
  
In line 10 and 11 the tone of the poem changes. The man is nice to her
and the bitch changes her attitude, she weakens. She softens and falls
back into old habits and feelings and wants to be close to him again.
In line 13 the woman tries to keep a distance between them. She threatens
with "a taste of the choke-chain" and the bitch inside her obeys reluctantly.
"After all, I am her mistress. She is basically loyal." The woman can control
the bitch and her own feelings. Being the mistress of the bitch could be
compared to being the mistress of a dog.
  
In the next ten lines the bitch remembers the past, which does not seem
very nice to the reader. She used to act like a dog, waiting for its master,
listening for his steps and then come running to obey and please him,
lying at his feet and adoring him. She used to wait obediently and
devotedly for him to notice and care about her. He treated her like a
dog, ordering her to fetch things and only noticed her when he felt like
it, and then he just played with her and her feelings.
  
But the bitch chooses to remember the good times better than the bad
ones. She thinks back at when he was nice to her, although it was
"careless kindnesses". He was not really paying her any attention,
only when he was in a good mood or had been drinking.
In line 28 the woman states that "It's nice to know you are doing so well"
and after that she starts making excuses for him leaving her. She puts
herself down and explains that he could not have taken her with him,
because she was not good enough. Here you can hear the echo of his
words. Even though she is the one stating this, it is clear that these
are his words to begin with, words that she have probably been told
numerous times. She is nothing compared to his new friends, who are
very neat and tidy, taking care of their appearance.
  
Finally, after some polite parting phrases, the woman leaves and is
forced to drag the bitch away from him "by the scruff", just like you
do with a disobedient dog.
  
The main-thread of the poem is dog-like behaviour. Here, the bitch
is a symbol that represents the woman's feelings and she hides the
bitch and her feelings from the man. A bitch can be either a female
dog or a woman. When a woman is referred to as a bitch, it is not
a positive word. It is associated with an unpleasant, nagging woman
and that could be the reason why she hides the bitch from him,
because she knows that the bitch (and her emotions) would annoy
him. "Where are your manners?" the woman asks the bitch, she might
be asking herself this because she does not want to give in to what
she is feeling, or she might be worried that her feelings will shine
through to the man.

Maria Fröjd and Ulrika Josefsson